Keep The Question ALive

Hey Friends,

its been coon's age we haven't really interacted,  i do feel repentance for this.

The last post was approx 2 years ago and coming here again makes me feel happy :).

I hope you are living a good life with your friends and families....   You know when someone is around you in your happiness / sadness they are your family and friends...   In Short word i think Family and Friends are not to be expressed separately..  you can say they are "Apne (Ours - Who are connected by hearts)"

Apne log makes you happy.

Origin of this Apne :- I went to many restaurant.. there i see an AC room and a normal room. while i was entering to AC room i saw the board near the door .. "For Family Only"  and we were not allowed to enter because i went with friends . I said WTF!  Are friends not family. 

Maybe this "Apne" Idea gets propagated. 

You may or may not be thinking why i am posting a blog again after long time..  Actually most of you know my sleep cycle is not constant..  so i was thinking that since i am not feeling sleepy what should i do, i was trying to find a person to talk with but not everyone is awake this late. then some thing strike my mind.

"Zindgi me ek aisa time aayega , jab aap akele ho ya neend nhi aa rhi ho ya udaas ho .... 

To us samay aapka skill, aapki hobby hi aapki sabse acchi dost banti hai..."

"There may be some time in your life when you feel you are alone , sad , cant sleep..

then only your skills , your hobbies can make you feel better by being a good friend."

I followed above line and posting this ... and i am happy :)  .

These days life is stuck in office work..  Being said by someone "Work Is Worship" it make your life run.

Suddenly i tried to analyze something which bring's today's tittle "Keep The Question Alive".

Whatever things are going on in your life either its Office ,College , Business, Farming, Marriage, Relationships, ..etc

The Question that must you should be asking to yourself is - " Are you happy? "

If your answer is Yes .. Congratulations ...

If No , then also congrats at least you know the answer.

if you don't know the answer then its complicated :P

Now.. When its Yes.. you have to keep the spirit up for more betterment.

When its No - You need to sit down and realize : -

          Are you a person whose life is same as the person whom you abuse daily

          Are you Lazy Or you have no guts do to what you want to do

          Are you thinking everything in traditional way.

          Are you having any financial problem or family problem.

You have free time to think and realize these -- i do realize these things when i am in bathroom :P

Me or anyone may not be able to answer above question to you. but you can try doing something like -

       Yes, I am a better person than the person i abuse... keep the positivism.

       No i am not lazy .. i do have guts..  - You just need something to Motivate..find it

       Think Out of Box , which you have not even imagined may solve your problem.

       Family Problems need to be handled because they are your Apne :)

       Dont Try to adjust yourself..  go beyond limit for your happiness (dont hurt others)

Tooo muchh now...  i read it from beginning and i am asking myself "Kahna Kya chahte ho bhai" ..  

Don't know if you are gonna like it or not.. but as said .. I feel happy posting this :)

May this month of Ramzan bring happiness , new opportunities, smiles for you...

Good Bye :)

Apka Apna 

Naveen